What is the difference between doing something that you thought wld cause anger and something that causes hurt?

Question by drbrian247: What is the difference between doing something that you thought wld cause anger and something that causes hurt?
My girlfriend did something that she said she thought might make me angry but said she didn't know it would hurt me. She promised long ago not to call a certain guy but since calling him and telling him she could no longer talk to him because it hurt me and considered it disrespectful, she has called him 4 times when we get argue and she gets mad at me. Is

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